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It’s funny how there is chemistry and then there isn’t any chemistry between two people. Ever wonder why that is?  The way I see it, two people either share a common interest in one thing or a common interest in a variety of things. Then you have people who have nothing in common. 


What makes people fall for each other? Is it that common interest or is it something else?  Who really knows the answer to that?  Ever met someone and knew that person is who you wanted to be with? Would you say that you wanted to be with that person because of the common interest?  Could it be that you had the same exact feeling when you met your first love (if that first love is gone)? That feeling being a warm feeling, or do you find yourself thinking about that person day in and day out? The best is when you think about this person during a long day that seems as if it is never going to end.  A smile automatically appears on your face, and all of a sudden your day is over.  When it comes down to it the feeling is just unexplanable.


Did you ever think that it could be lust?  But if you haven’t had sex, how could you say that it is lust?  But if you have had sex it could be lust and for others it could really be love.  Who knows or does anybody even care?  What are you to do in a situation like that? Do you say to the other person, “Hey even though I don’t know you like that, I think that you and I can have something good, but first we must build a solid foundation so that if something goes wrong we can work it out together.  And, no matter what, we still stay friends and know that we did give it a try?”  Or do you say,  “Let’s just have sex with no strings attached?”  No matter what, either way you go the outcome may be the one you don’t want to hear or end up regretting.


Why is it so hard to tell another person how you feel about them?  Why can’t you just say how you feel at that exact moment when you are asked?  Why do you have to take longer than a minute?


How does, and when does, a man know  he is in love and is being loved?  Will he ever be true to his feeling and admit that he is in love and is being loved?  When does he know that he doesn’t want to let “wifey” go?  But yet why is he capable of cheating on “wifey?” There are some men out there who will be faithful, and then you have others who just have to run up in everything.


Men, will you ever be TRUE to your feelings?


If It’s Me That You Love

You say that you feel my pain
and you never meant to hurt me.
But over and over again you go out and
do the same. If it’s my name that you
call out, why cheat?
Is she giving you something that you can’t
live without?

If it’s me that you love, why do the things that
you do.
If it’s me that you love, why hurt me over and
over again?
If it’s me that you love, why can’t you give it to me?

The only thing that I ever wanted
was for us to be together.
All you ever wanted was something
just for the moment.
You say that you love me but
how could that be?

If it’s me that you love, why do your actions
speak louder than your words?
If it’s me that you love, why do you do the
things that you do?

Time and time again I let you
back in
is it because I’m a fool for your love
or is it you that I can’t be without?
But if it’s me that you love, why do you
do the things that you do?
If it’s me that you love why continue to hurt me?
If it’s me that you love why can’t
you give it to me and only me?
Don’t be afraid if it’s me that you love